Cock Teasing Tips
The Wonder of Lube
Lube is the friend of every Cock Control Mistress and their stroker sluts. So much so that Ms. Constance has a page devoted to lube reviews! For a cocktease, the wonder is that the more lube you use, the slipperier that cock gets and the less stimulation the denied submissive actually gets! IF that’s the game I’m playing, I know when the lube is drying up, because my vict…errr, submissive… starts to feel it more. I can either add more lube to keep frustrating him, or start building those edges!
The Sensitive Cockhead
“Polishing the apple” or “palming the knob” is a great technique! It’s not enough stimulation for most strokers to actually cum – but it drives them crazy! For this type of teasing, I have actually found that lube is NOT your friend. In fact, if there’s just a bit of moisture, say from that drop of pre-cum on the tip, the more intense the stimulation seems to be. And the more intense the stimulation, the more he wiggles, moans and begs me to stop!
Red Light, Green Light
I love playing “Red Light, Green Light” with my teasing slaves. Of course, I never tell them when the light is changing! I just make a point to stop every once in a while. let them recover a little ,maybe even make them believe the session is over and they’re going to be denied. I may even Queen them for a while until I’ve had a few orgasms – then start stroking them again, building even more edges and letting those balls ache just a bit more!
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Teasing and queening make excellent bedmates, don’t they? Taking a moment to lower yourself down onto a submissive’s face while his head is still spinning from the recovery time is a great way to keep them distracted while you continue to weave your magnificent web of lustful edging. Another type of red light green light is to allow him to stroke only while you are lowered and make him stop once you pull away. Every try that version?